1 Big Mistake I Made When I Was Getting Started in My First Leadership Position

Niko Single
2 min readJan 13, 2023
Photo by Andrew Neel on Unsplash

Like most beginners, I made countless mistakes in my first leadership role as a production manager.

But this was the biggest one, by far:

I thought I had to have all the answers

Here’s what happened:

When I started out, my mental image of a leader was to be the infallible know-it-all: I thought I had to have the answer to every question right away.

This — of course — put a lot of pressure on me.

But much worse: it prevented me from asking and collecting the knowledge and opinions of my team and business partners.

I limited the intelligence of my organization to the degree of my knowledge (which wasn’t much at that time — new industry, new role, …).

Fortunately, one day, my senior production planner came into my office with a question I absolutely had no clue on.

I knew he was experienced (working more than 40 years in the company), so I just asked him what his thoughts were.

To my surprise, he was able to answer his own question better than I could have ever answered.

And what almost shocked me: he was happy with the solution.

No signs of disappointment or damaged trust that I didn’t have the answer on his side.

After reflecting what had just happened, I thought:

“Maybe I don’t need to have the answers, but ask the right questions?”

From there on, I tried asking questions more frequently rather than giving answers.

And guess what happened?

  1. People started trusting me MORE, than when I was giving all the answers (weird, huh?)
  2. The quality of our problem-solving improved due to more opinions getting on the table
  3. The pressure I put on myself vanished

This is why I encourage every Leader to start getting into the habit of asking questions.

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Niko Single

Interim Leader | Leadership Coach | Girl Dad and CrossFitter